World Vision and Westboro Baptist Church: Comparing and Contrasting Contemporary Extremes in Christianity to Scripture.

World Vision announced that they will be supporting Marriage Equality in their hiring practices… in order to help unify Christians….

Westboro Baptist Church announced that their founder, whom they excommunicated, died… but they have no understanding why pagans are making sympathetic gestures towards them….

Something significant seems to be missing…. In both instances….

From the title…. From the name…. That seems to be very telling….

God is not necessarily centrally evidenced in either World Vision… or Westboro Baptist Church… at least not on the surface…. The name World Vision seems strangely appropriate…. A declaration of internal values….

Yet both seem to be trying to stake claim to controlling interests in Christian Morality….

World Vision is definitely not Hobby Lobby…. No Duck Dynasty…. No Chick-fil-a…. Very different ethos…. Different ethic….

Neither is Westboro Baptist Church….

But… the critical question seems to  be… can God use such divers… such divergent… “Christian”organs…? Does God use them…?

Short answer…. God used Pharaoh…. So… yes… God can….

But… what does Scripture say…. Do of these two Contemporary Christian Extremes reflect Scripture… accurately…?

I am convinced both will argue that their values do… and the others do not… and thus… neither is likely to lead towards unity of the Body of Believers…. Because healing… requires Reconciliation….

I am sure that many Christians will see this as a case in which The Golden Mean applies…. Let’s meet half way…. Compromise….

That is perfect… from the Buddhist Perspective….

Buddha taught “The Middle Way”. In Pure Land Buddhism, the ideal is called “The White Path Between the Two Rivers”. The River of Fire on the right, which signifies submersing oneself in willful self-indulgence. The River of Water on the left, which signifies severe asceticism and extreme self-denial. And the White Way… the narrow path between the two extremes….

Here’s why I say that:

John 4:1-44 English Standard Version (ESV)

Jesus and the Woman of Samaria

Now when Jesus learned that the Pharisees had heard that Jesus was making and baptizing more disciples than John (although Jesus himself did not baptize, but only his disciples), he left Judea and departed again for Galilee. And he had to pass through Samaria. So he came to a town of Samaria called Sychar, near the field that Jacob had given to his son Joseph. Jacob’s well was there; so Jesus, wearied as he was from his journey, was sitting beside the well. It was about the sixth hour.[a]

A woman from Samaria came to draw water. Jesus said to her, “Give me a drink.” (For his disciples had gone away into the city to buy food.) The Samaritan woman said to him, “How is it that you, a Jew, ask for a drink from me, a woman of Samaria?” (For Jews have no dealings with Samaritans.) 10 Jesus answered her, “If you knew the gift of God, and who it is that is saying to you, ‘Give me a drink,’ you would have asked him, and he would have given you living water.” 11 The woman said to him, “Sir, you have nothing to draw water with, and the well is deep. Where do you get that living water? 12 Are you greater than our father Jacob? He gave us the well and drank from it himself, as did his sons and his livestock.” 13 Jesus said to her, “Everyone who drinks of this water will be thirsty again, 14 but whoever drinks of the water that I will give him will never be thirsty again.[b] The water that I will give him will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life.” 15 The woman said to him, “Sir, give me this water, so that I will not be thirsty or have to come here to draw water.”

16 Jesus said to her, “Go, call your husband, and come here.” 17 The woman answered him, “I have no husband.” Jesus said to her, “You are right in saying, ‘I have no husband’; 18 for you have had five husbands, and the one you now have is not your husband. What you have said is true.” 19 The woman said to him, “Sir, I perceive that you are a prophet. 20 Our fathers worshiped on this mountain, but you say that in Jerusalem is the place where people ought to worship.” 21 Jesus said to her, “Woman, believe me, the hour is coming when neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem will you worship the Father. 22 You worship what you do not know; we worship what we know, for salvation is from the Jews. 23 But the hour is coming, and is now here, when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for the Father is seeking such people to worship him. 24 God is spirit, and those who worship him must worship in spirit and truth.” 25 The woman said to him, “I know that Messiah is coming (he who is called Christ). When he comes, he will tell us all things.” 26 Jesus said to her, “I who speak to you am he.”

27 Just then his disciples came back. They marveled that he was talking with a woman, but no one said, “What do you seek?” or, “Why are you talking with her?” 28 So the woman left her water jar and went away into town and said to the people, 29 “Come, see a man who told me all that I ever did. Can this be the Christ?” 30 They went out of the town and were coming to him.

31 Meanwhile the disciples were urging him, saying, “Rabbi, eat.” 32 But he said to them, “I have food to eat that you do not know about.” 33 So the disciples said to one another, “Has anyone brought him something to eat?” 34 Jesus said to them, “My food is to do the will of him who sent me and to accomplish his work. 35 Do you not say, ‘There are yet four months, then comes the harvest’? Look, I tell you, lift up your eyes, and see that the fields are white for harvest. 36 Already the one who reaps is receiving wages and gathering fruit for eternal life, so that sower and reaper may rejoice together. 37 For here the saying holds true, ‘One sows and another reaps.’ 38 I sent you to reap that for which you did not labor. Others have labored, and you have entered into their labor.”

39 Many Samaritans from that town believed in him because of the woman’s testimony, “He told me all that I ever did.” 40 So when the Samaritans came to him, they asked him to stay with them, and he stayed there two days. 41 And many more believed because of his word. 42 They said to the woman, “It is no longer because of what you said that we believe, for we have heard for ourselves, and we know that this is indeed the Savior of the world.”

43 After the two days he departed for Galilee. 44 (For Jesus himself had testified that a prophet has no honor in his own hometown.)

Footnotes:

  1. John 4:6 That is, about noon
  2. John 4:14 Greek forever

Many of us know this passage as “The Woman at the Well”. The woman in question, happens to be a Samaritan…. A half-blood syncretist…. Evidence of God’s destruction of his Chosen People for Infidelity…. And… that was certainly brought out by her sin….

Jesus’ Disciples were amazed that he was even talking to her….

First… she was a woman…. Not of his family…. Not someone he knew well… or even knew at all…. She was a Samaritan… so she was shunned…. A social outcast…. Racially discriminated against…. Far from salvation…. The Jews viewed Salvation as strictly their own possession… The Jews viewed themselves as better than their kin…. And… the Messiah… had been sent… to save only the Chosen….

Oh… and she was a SINNER!!! An Infidel…. In EVERY sense of the word….

So… how did Jesus treat this Sinner….

He didn’t condemn her… though he clearly identified her sin to her….

But… Jesus didn’t condone her sin either…. Jesus didn’t say: “You are a Sinner, but your sins are forgiven… just keep on doing what you are doing…. It’s OK…. My Grace covers all your sin….”

Jesus did not condemn the Sinner… nor did he condone her sin-filled Lifestyle….

But… shouldn’t we condemn her….

John gives another example… where Jesus is tested… on just this issue….

John 8:1-11 English Standard Version (ESV)

but Jesus went to the Mount of Olives. Early in the morning he came again to the temple. All the people came to him, and he sat down and taught them. The scribes and the Pharisees brought a woman who had been caught in adultery, and placing her in the midst they said to him, “Teacher, this woman has been caught in the act of adultery. Now in the Law Moses commanded us to stone such women. So what do you say?” This they said to test him, that they might have some charge to bring against him. Jesus bent down and wrote with his finger on the ground. And as they continued to ask him, he stood up and said to them, “Let him who is without sin among you be the first to throw a stone at her.” And once more he bent down and wrote on the ground. But when they heard it, they went away one by one, beginning with the older ones, and Jesus was left alone with the woman standing before him. 10 Jesus stood up and said to her, “Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?” 11 She said, “No one, Lord.” And Jesus said, “Neither do I condemn you; go, and from now on sin no more.”

Jesus does not condemn this woman either. Nor does he condone her actions or lifestyle.

Jesus instructs the women: Go… and sin no more….

Rebuke in Love. Leading to Repentance. Leading to Reconciliation.

The Church cannot be healed with Reconciliation.

Neither Condemning… nor Condoning… are likely to facilitate True Repentance….

I mentioned the White Way Between the Two Rivers…. Jesus never suggested we walk the narrow path between extremes….

God didn’t send Jesus as our Messiah as some half-measure….

The Temple… and the Sacrifice… the Law… those were half-measures…. Temporary…. Symbolic…. Ritualistic….

But Jesus… was the culmination… the completion… of the Law….

Jesus was fully man… fully God… and full propitiation for my sin…. Jesus’ death and resurrection paid my debt in full….

Jesus didn’t preach a half-way… or a Middle Way….

Jesus was a different way….

Jesus is… the ONLY Way….

Jesus didn’t condemn…. Jesus didn’t condone…. Jesus SAVED…. And… Jesus transformed….

Mitigating Injustice and Divine Retribution

Another angry Scripture Reading on a disquieting theme. Being attacked inside one’s home… by one’s family….

Psalm 59

English Standard Version (ESV)

Deliver Me from My Enemies

To the choirmaster: according to Do Not Destroy. A Miktam[a] of David, when Saul sent men to watch his house in order to kill him.

59 Deliver me from my enemies, O my God;
    protect me from those who rise up against me;
deliver me from those who work evil,
    and save me from bloodthirsty men.

For behold, they lie in wait for my life;
    fierce men stir up strife against me.
For no transgression or sin of mine, O Lord,
    for no fault of mine, they run and make ready.
Awake, come to meet me, and see!
    You, Lord God of hosts, are God of Israel.
Rouse yourself to punish all the nations;
    spare none of those who treacherously plot evil. Selah

Each evening they come back,
    howling like dogs
    and prowling about the city.
There they are, bellowing with their mouths
    with swords in their lips—
    for “Who,” they think,[b] “will hear us?”

But you, O Lord, laugh at them;
    you hold all the nations in derision.
O my Strength, I will watch for you,
    for you, O God, are my fortress.
10 My God in his steadfast love[c] will meet me;
    God will let me look in triumph on my enemies.

11 Kill them not, lest my people forget;
    make them totter[d] by your power and bring them down,
    O Lord, our shield!
12 For the sin of their mouths, the words of their lips,
    let them be trapped in their pride.
For the cursing and lies that they utter,
13     consume them in wrath;
    consume them till they are no more,
that they may know that God rules over Jacob
    to the ends of the earth. Selah

14 Each evening they come back,
    howling like dogs
    and prowling about the city.
15 They wander about for food
    and growl if they do not get their fill.

16 But I will sing of your strength;
    I will sing aloud of your steadfast love in the morning.
For you have been to me a fortress
    and a refuge in the day of my distress.
17 O my Strength, I will sing praises to you,
    for you, O God, are my fortress,
    the God who shows me steadfast love.

Footnotes:

  1. Psalm 59:1 Probably a musical or liturgical term
  2. Psalm 59:7 Hebrew lacks they think
  3. Psalm 59:10 Or The God who shows me steadfast love
  4. Psalm 59:11 Or wander

David feels that he is being attacked for no reason. That he’s done nothing wrong. He cries out for Justice. Divine condemnation….

Retribution…. Exoneration….

But… I think I see something else in play here….

God’s Sovereignty…. God does what he does for his own reasons… for his own Glory…. And both of those… ultimately… are an expression of God’s Great Love… for me….

But… not just for me….

God hasn’t forgotten about me….

God hasn’t forgotten about Justice….

God’s most amazing quality is his utterly Holiness… which utterly destroys man’s sin… or utter destroys man….

I am left with only two rational options…. Pray for God’s Blessings… and Salvation… for my enemies… no matter how much they have hurt me… wounded my pride…. Or… pray for their utter destruction….

Maybe that’s why God reserves vengeance… and judgment… for himself…. The stakes are just too high….

God has a plan….

I need to submit to God’s Will… and try to subjugate my own desires….

Christian Divorce: What is Required of Men….

Well… I suspect this post will not be too popular….

Micah 7:6-7 English Standard Version (ESV)

for the son treats the father with contempt,
the daughter rises up against her mother,
the daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law;
a man’s enemies are the men of his own house.
But as for me, I will look to the Lord;
I will wait for the God of my salvation;
my God will hear me.

I suspect some of you have never been through it. Never had someone in your family become your enemy.

I’m happy for you. May you never have the experience.

But… for the rest of us….

The issue is NOT how I FEEL. The issue is NOT my reputation. Not inside my church. Not in my community. Not professionally. Not at all.

The issue is not whether my church listens to both sides… or takes the other person’s side…. Divorce amongst Christians is no prettier than divorce amongst pagans…. The only thing that seems to be missing is some of the hypocrisy….

The issue is not who controls the spin….

Not whether I am treated fairly…. Not whether I get JUSTICE… Not whether I clear my name….

Funny….

God doesn’t seem to care about ANY of that….

God HATES divorce….

 Malachi 2:16   English Standard Version (ESV)

16 “For the man who does not love his wife but divorces her,[a] says the Lord, the God of Israel, covers[b] his garment with violence, says the Lord of hosts. So guard yourselves in your spirit, and do not be faithless.”

Footnotes:

  1. Malachi 2:16 Hebrew who hates and divorces
  2. Malachi 2:16 Probable meaning (compare Septuagint and Deuteronomy 24:1–4); or “The Lord, the God of Israel, says that he hates divorce, and him who covers

God HATES dishonesty….

God IS Just….

God IS a jealous god. And… his most frequent comment about himself is that he is HOLY… not that he is loving… as many Christian churches seem to think was his main message… because it fills the pews…. Missing the point… that God reserves for himself the Remnant….

So… I believe I am Chosen…. But to show my love for God… I must follow his commandments…. And his commandment… is that I do everything within my power to reconcile…. To forgive…. Everything…. As he forgives…. Me….

But… what if my wife doesn’t want to…? What if she turns people against me…? What am I supposed to do…?

But… God is not at my beck and call….

Forgive. As I am forgiven. Continue to work towards reconciliation. No matter what is said. No matter what is done.

Not necessarily contest…. But… continue to support…. Financially…. Continue to cover….

I can find no Scripture that releases a man from his responsibilities towards his wife… even if she hates him…. Even if she spreads lies…. Even if she steals….

The only Biblical out is adultery… and physical abandonment… and even then… we are supposed to forgive… support… and seek reconciliation….

Matthew 19:9   English Standard Version (ESV)

And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.”[a]

Footnotes:

  1. Matthew 19:9 Some manuscripts add and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery; other manuscripts except for sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery

This teaching is hard. Jesus’ Apostles and Disciples said it was hard. If people staring into Jesus’ eyes as he said it thought the teaching was hard, then I cannot imagine it’s gotten any softer for any of us mere mortals….

Matthew 19:10-12 English Standard Version (ESV)

10 The disciples said to him, “If such is the case of a man with his wife, it is better not to marry.” 11 But he said to them, “Not everyone can receive this saying, but only those to whom it is given. 12 For there are eunuchs who have been so from birth, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by men, and there are eunuchs who have made themselves eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. Let the one who is able to receive this receive it.”

The word that Jesus associates with Divorce is “schlerocardia” in Koine Greek. Having a hard heart. It’s the same word that Moses used to describe Pharaoh’s heart… before God delivered his people out of slavery….

Matthew 19:3-8  English Standard Version (ESV)

And Pharisees came up to him and tested him by asking, “Is it lawful to divorce one’s wife for any cause?” He answered, “Have you not read that he who created them from the beginning made them male and female, and said, ‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.” They said to him, “Why then did Moses command one to give a certificate of divorce and to send her away?” He said to them, “Because of your hardness of heart Moses allowed you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so.

The Apostles… the Disciples… the Priests… the Scribes… the Pharisees… and the people who were gathered to be healed and fed… ALL would have recognized the context of his words…. “Your hearts are like Pharaoh’s….” A damning accusation….

Exodus 9:12   English Standard Version (ESV)

12 But the Lord hardened the heart of Pharaoh, and he did not listen to them, as the Lord had spoken to Moses.

But… what about the church…? What about the Pastors…. What about the Deacons and Elders…? Aren’t they supposed to be impartial…? Listen to both sides…? Seek to follow Scripture…? Promote reconciliation…?

Yes. That’s what Proverbs says. And… that’s what Paul says…. Don’t settle things before non-Christians in Court because you make Jesus… the Bridegroom… look bad…. Make God look weak…. Impotent….Unpalatable…. A bad witness before the Unsaved….

And… that is what Paul… and Jesus… and God… seem to be most concerned about…. Salvation of Sinners…. And… that is linked to the exercise of Forgiveness by the Forgiven…. Without excuse…. Without exception….

The Principle of Two Witnesses demands that anyone charged be allowed to answer those charges… and no unsubstantiated charges be allowed…. Paul also addresses women who seek to profit at the expense of others so that they can have their days free in I Timothy 5….

But… the church is filled with humans…. Who make mistakes…. Ministers who are more afraid of Man’s Law than God’s Law…. Who are more smitten by the concept of human love… than God’s Holiness…. Minister’s who suffer from schlerocardia… and cannot conceive that God really meant what he said in Scripture….

ALL men suffer from Pride…. That includes me…. My response needs to be Forgiveness…. Radical forgiveness…. As I was forgiven…. Without requiring explanation…. Without requiring apology….

What does Paul say about separation in Christian marriage…?

Permanent separation…. Refusal to reconcile…. Are tantamount to a statement of disbelief in the Sovereign Power of God…. But don’t take my word for it….

1 Corinthians 7:1-15  English Standard Version (ESV)

Principles for Marriage

7 Now concerning the matters about which you wrote: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.

Now as a concession, not a command, I say this.[a] I wish that all were as I myself am. But each has his own gift from God, one of one kind and one of another.

To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is good for them to remain single as I am. But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion.

10 To the married I give this charge (not I, but the Lord): the wife should not separate from her husband 11 (but if she does, she should remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband), and the husband should not divorce his wife.

12 To the rest I say (I, not the Lord) that if any brother has a wife who is an unbeliever, and she consents to live with him, he should not divorce her. 13 If any woman has a husband who is an unbeliever, and he consents to live with her, she should not divorce him. 14 For the unbelieving husband is made holy because of his wife, and the unbelieving wife is made holy because of her husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy. 15 But if the unbelieving partner separates, let it be so. In such cases the brother or sister is not enslaved. God has called you[b] to peace.

Footnotes:

  1. 1 Corinthians 7:6 Or I say this:
  2. 1 Corinthians 7:15 Some manuscripts us

What’s the bottom line…?

God calls men to “Do the right thing”. Not the easy thing. Not the most profitable thing. Not the most desirable thing.

For God’s own purposes….

Micah 6:8

English Standard Version (ESV)

He has told you, O man, what is good;
and what does the Lord require of you
but to do justice, and to love kindness,[a]
and to walk humbly with your God?

Footnotes:

  1. Micah 6:8 Or steadfast love

Men are commanded to love their wives. Wives are not commanded to love their husbands. They are commanded to obey. Their husbands. But God first.

God’s definition of Love is not man’s ephemeral understanding. Nor woman’s temporary feelings.

No matter what… I am responsible to try my best to follow God’s Laws and Christ’s Commandments… to demonstrate my love for God… which must be extended to man… and woman… even when I am being shown nothing but hate….

Because submitting to God… glorifies God…. In God’s own time….